The last two days I have been posting images from my journal written eight years ago. The journal pages are the beginning of a second book on universe surfing that I started writing then.
Your quantum constraints are a small subset of your classical constraints. They include very few constraints in the literal sense, as we are only truly constrained by the physical laws of the universe, or multiverse if you will. From a more practical sense, you can think of them as the constraints on your parallel selves in nearby universes, were nearby universes are the most probable universes you might find yourself in were you to leave your current one. As you sense universes farther away, you will notice that many of the constraints on you in this universe are not present. Others may be however. It’s helpful in unisurfing to have a good understanding of your quantum constraint field.
2017-0125W-0815 Home, Austin – Quantum Constraint Field – Part 1 (page 15)
As I ponder this for the first time, I realize that an entire book could be written on the Quantum Constraint Field. For now, please allow me to use the simple analogy of an actual field with hills and valleys. Notice that this field in your mind does not have any discontinuities – the height of the field at one location is close to the height at a nearby location. We will save the calculus for another data, and now imagine a field of trees and rocks. Add a pond in the field and a log cabin. Let’s call this one universe. Now imagine a second universe where everything is there but in a different place. If we consider only these two universes and assign each an equal probability of occurring, then each thing has a 50% probability of being where it is in universe 1 and a 50% probability of being where it is in universe 2.
2017-0125W-1200 Jack Allen’s Kitchen, Austin, TX – Quantum Constraint Field – Part 2 (page 16)
If you were to walk across the field in universe 1, you would likely need to take a different path than you would in universe 2 in order to avoid the obstacles. The trees, rocks, pond, and cabin are all constraints on the path you can take. Now imagine that the cabin is not an obstacle but your destination and in both universes, it’s on the far side of the field but in a different corner. Your challenge is to get to the cabin as efficiently as you can without getting wet. There is one more rule for this game to make it interesting and educational. As you move, every step you take has a 50% chance to change the universe from one universe to the other. Think now about a strategy for winning this challenge.
I’m sitting in the sun with K as she get’s ready to host her cleanse. I just finished posting pictures from my journal from 8 years ago (2025 Day 23: One, Two, Three – Synchronicity). In this post, I am going to continue posting pictures from my journal from eight years ago today.
12 minutes ago, I was walking behind the back fence here at Radio East and I saw something shiny on the ground. It was a quarter, and then another quarter, and then a dime. Sixty! I quickly calculated. Wow!
K had just asked me about my birthday and what year I was born. I turn sixty this year! I’ve was already feeling the synchronicities around this number due to these past blog posts:
As I sit in my open doorway and watch the sun rise on another beautiful day, I feel joy, happiness, serenity, and a desire to change the electronic music playing … please wait … ok. Laura Marling’s “When were you Happy? (and How Long has that Been)” station is now playing.
"Wouldn't it be a thing
To live somewhere quietly where there's a breeze
And there's a moon for us to be"
From the lens of tandem surfing, this line from the song reveals some ideas we can use. To tandem surf successfully with someone else, it requires:
a reason to surf together
a quiet environment
a gentle “breeze”
2017-0124T-0800 Home, Austin – A Reason for us to Be (page 11)
To “be” means to enjoy the present moment, or to at least experience it – joy or sadness. Solo unisurfing is about being present in the moment, classically experiencing it, quantum experiencing, sensing the possibilities, knowing why certain future possibilities are important to you, knowing why the present moment is important to you, and making choices that guide you to the present moments you desire and that increase the probability of future possibilities you desire. Knowing why helps you sort through your desires. Likewise, for tandem unisurfing, knowing why for “us to be” and jointly knowing the future possibilities for “us” and why that union is desirable, along with making choices together, allowing for an enjoyable tandem unisurfing experience.
2017-0124T-1680 BBRovers, Austin – Know WHY you want what you want (page 12)
When solo unisurfing, you can begin surfing as soon as you know what you want. With tandem unisurfing, it is necessary to know not only what you want, but WHY you want it. Knowing WHY is also beneficial for solo unisurfing, so it’s good to get into the habit of asking yourself WHY you want a particular experience. As you explore your answer to WHY, consider your quantum self and sense all of the different answers to WHY. Compare these answers to the answers that your classical self is aware of. Once you and your surfing partner have a good understanding of the motivations of your quantum selves, then compare these motivations. By knowing each other’s WHY answers, you can have greater success in tandem surfing.
2017-0124T-1630 BBRovers, Austin, TX – A Quiet Environment (page 13)
By “quiet environment”, I mean not many external forces constraining your actions. Often it appears that we have many constraints, whether it’s our job, our mortgage, our family, etc. It is important to understand which of these are fixed constraints and which are flexible. To help you gain clarity, consider your quantum self, who has made different choices. What constraints does your quantum self have? Only those constraints where are shared …
Pool time with Ian
Parden the interruption, but pool is definitely not a quiet activity, especially with this pool table ihat is missing a plastic corner protector.
Last night I was going through old photos and I found some pictures I had taken of my journal. This morning, I looked at my journal photos again and decided to post them. Here they are, with transcription. I will save my thoughts on these until another day. The one extra synchronicity I will add is I just realized that I met Carmel on One, Two, Three – more precisely on One, Two, Three, Two, Zero, One, Three. Not in Jan but in Dec – you can do the math.
2016-0227-1019 Brenda’s French Soul Food, SF – Wow! (page 1)
“Wow!”
I texted Carmel from the lighthouse yesterday morning. I had gotten up early to catch the sunrise. It was my last day working at Apple and I wanted to experience the full day and start it off right. Charlie wanted to go too, so I got his leash and some poop bags and we walked down to West Cliff. As we walked along, we came upon the spot where I had taken the picture I used on the cover of Surfing the Multiverse. I looked down and saw a young man and his dog. It reminded me of when I had taken the picture and how I had wished I had known the gentleman’s name so I could acknowledge him.
2016-0229 Lou’s Fish Shack, Fisherman’s Wharf SF – What’s the Chance? (pages 2 & 3)
“What’s the chance?”, I thought to myself. A quick mental calculation resulted in “quite small” as an answer.
2017-0123M-1219 Samsung, Austin TX – Fast Forward
Fast Forward almost a year. I haven’t been writing and today decided that I would get back to it. As fate would have it (or as the synchronistic probabilities of the universe would have it), today was my first day at a new building at Samsung. I joined Samsung last year after leaving Apple. My first day at Samsung was 3/21. Today, being 1/23, I was remembering my start date and also wondering about the universe where I still worked at Apple. As I drove into work, I lost my way and ended up in the wrong office complex. I realized this when I noticed that the offices were Apple’s design center. This coincidence was also notable because yesterday I found myself searching jobs at Apple. I wasn’t sure why at the time and I didn’t look too carefully. Now it is clear to me that I am surfing near to universes where I am working at Apple, especially the Austin design center. I had considered transferring to the Austin design center last year.
2017-0123M-1300 Samsung, Austin, TX – Back to What’s the Chance (page 4)
So where was I in the story of my last day at Apple? Oh yes, I see now as I catch up with you, I was walking along West Cliff in Santa Cruz when I spied someone down on the beach with a dog and it reminded me of the picture I had taken for my 1st book back cover. Well, as odds would have it, the man looked nothing like the one I had taken a picture of, and so I continued walking.
This may be a good time to mention a universe surfing skill I have learned. Just as the wave surfer waits to catch a good wave, the universe surfer can identify conditions that are good for surfing between universes.
2017-0123M-1315 Samsung, Austin – Major Changes Bring Universes Together (Page 5)
When there are changes occurring in your life, then you are in an area of the multiverse in which many different (“far away”) universes are nearby and interfering with each other. This is much different than when you are having a day of habit when you are surrounded by universes very much like your own. As such, you should pay special attention to any thoughts, however fleeting, that cross your mind. These thoughts are from your quantum mind in other universes coupling with your classical mind in the universe you are experiencing classically. So, when I imagine I see the man and his dog from my photo and then quickly realize that it’s not them, I need to pay attention. And I need to pay attention especially so since its a day of high change.
2017-0123M-1320 Austin – Listen to your Quantum Mind (page 6)
As I continued walking down West Cliff, I arrived at the entrance to Dog Beach. There was some safety tape across the entrance for some reason and I paused to ponder why. I was still feeling a pull to go down to dog beach, plus I knew Charlie would enjoy it even if I didn’t manage to surf any universes. As I was paused at the entrance, a man and his dog walked by and I asked the man if he came there often – hoping that he might know the man in the picture on my phone. He waved me away as if he couldn’t be bothered and began walking down the steps to the beach. As he walked down, I noticed his dog looked very familiar. Could it be the same dog in my photo?!
2017-0123M-1325 Austin – In Search of a Dog (part 1) (page 7)
I search my phone for the photo I had taken six months prior. I found it- same dog! Or at least it looked the same from the photo. As my heart stated beating faster, I stepped over the safety tape and made my way down to Dog Beach. As I got to the beach, I looked around and saw no one. I began walking down to the area where I had first taken the photo. As the hidden area of the beach revealed itself, I saw the man and his dog. I approached him and tried to explain how I had taken a picture of him six months ago, had written a book, and had been looking for him. He waved me off as if I were crazy. I persevered and asked for his contact info so I could send him a copy of the book and asked for his permission to use the photo.
2017-0123-1330 – In Search of Dog (part 2) (page 8)
He said I could use the photo but he didn’t want a copy of the book, and he went on his way. I felt like there must have been a reason why I had thought about meeting him, and then had met him. Certainly today was when we were supposed to meet and become connected. As he walked away, I thought about how close I was to knowing how he was and how I wanted to acknowledge him in the book credits. I decided to follow him and try again. He walked down to the lighthouse and then out to the cliffs where the surfers jump into the sea. The sun was rising or had just risen as I approached. I began to engage him again.
“Excuse me, …”, I said.
2017-0123-1340 – “Move it! You’re in my View!”
“Move it! You’re in my View!”, he yelled at me. I was startled by his passion.
“Stop following me! I don’t want to talk to you.”
Wow, I had not expected that. I thought I had been universe surfing according to the book. I had been noticing “days of change”. I had been paying attention to “fleeting thoughts” and to “unexpected events”. I had made choices which I thought would increase my chances of experiencing classically the universe I desired. Unfortunately, I was only solo surfing. I was not tandem surfing. I realized as I walked away that I needed to understand and write about tandem surfing. And I already knew the title of the book –
Five years ago I wrote 2020 Day 22: Habits in the Multiverse. Today, I would like to revisit this blog post and update it. In the blog post, I discussed how in one universe, I write a daily blog, and in a neighboring universe, I don’t. By deliberately focusing on my “new habit” universe, I attracted more of those “new habit” universes to be closer to me, increasing the likelihood that I would daily blog.
I continue to find value in universe surfing as a mental model to assist me in understanding and navigating the world. Whether habit formation requires 19 days, 29.5 days, or 12 lunar months, continuing to focus on the habit daily is the most important universe surfing technique. Focus is the energy that resonates in parallel universes and brings them closer to you. You have free will over your focus. Focus on the habit. For creating a habit, focus itself is enough. Whether you actually do the habit or not is less in your control. Regularly focus on the habit you are trying to create. Practice self-awareness of whether you actually do the habit or not. Notice any resistance and be curious about where the resistance is coming from.
In my last blog post, I said I would revisit “did some universe surfing magic” in a future blog post. This is that future post. When I say I “did some universe surfing magic,” I’m essentially describing the process of consciously shifting my attention and energy toward a version of reality—one in which a particular outcome or habit already exists. It builds on two core ideas:
1. Resonance: We all carry an energetic signature, influenced by our emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations. By deliberately aligning that energetic signature with the feeling or state we want—such as Love, Compassion, or a new habit—we “tune in” to the parallel universes where that state is already established. It’s akin to setting a radio dial; you carefully adjust your thoughts, feelings, and bodily awareness until you lock onto the station broadcasting that specific vibe.
2. Embodiment: Once you’ve identified the state you want to resonate with, you practice embodying it deeply. Yoga, meditation, Qi Gong, and similar practices teach us how to direct energy through breath, movement, and focused awareness. By unifying your mind, emotions, and physical sensation of that new habit or state, you effectively “surf” closer to the version of yourself—and the parallel universes—where the habit is a lived reality.
The “magic” part is less about supernatural forces and more about the surprising power of sustained intention. Over time, as you keep revisiting this specific resonance, you’ll notice that your external actions begin to align with it more consistently. You might spontaneously feel motivated to wake up earlier and blog, or naturally gravitate toward people who share your vision of living with more compassion. From the outside, these shifts can look almost magical, but they are underpinned by the everyday work of repeated focus and embodied practice.
I’m behind on my daily blogging. I’m holding Carmel and her family in my heart. I am grateful that I met Carmel and many of her family, and they will all forever be in my thoughts. I’m grateful for the many conversations with friends that I have had over the last few days. I’m grateful that my mind is often happy, optimistic, and entertaining. I am grateful that even though my mind will give me regular doses of negative self-talk, it usually does so in a compassionate way.
Many healers feel overwhelmed when trying to translate their gifts into a sustainable business. Figuring out a long-term strategy, setting measurable goals, and knowing where to invest time and resources can be daunting. A clear roadmap helps ensure that each step you take is aligned with your core purpose and the needs of your clients.
• 1.1) I will help you define a long-term vision that honors your unique gifts and desired lifestyle.
• 1.2) I will support you in mapping out incremental goals so you can measure progress effectively.
• 1.3) I will show you how to prioritize tasks, ensuring you spend energy on what truly matters.
• 1.4) I will guide you in discovering the niche where your skills and passions best serve your audience.
• 1.5) I will help you adapt your roadmap when life circumstances or client demands change.
• 1.6) I will encourage you to integrate continuous learning and refinement into your overall strategy.
2. Infrastructure, Operations, and Legal
From choosing a workspace to establishing a reliable digital record-keeping system, setting up the operational “nuts and bolts” can be confusing. Legal concerns, ethical guidelines, and liability issues can further complicate this stage, preventing many healers from focusing on the healing work itself.
• 2.1) I will help you identify and set up the ideal workspace—whether that’s at home, a shared facility, or a private office.
• 2.2) I will guide you through creating or refining key operational systems for scheduling, communication, and record-keeping.
• 2.3) I will show you how to manage legal and liability considerations through well-structured contracts and ethical guidelines.
• 2.4) I will ensure you understand the basics of protecting your intellectual property.
• 2.5) I will help you plan for contingencies, such as sickness or extended time off, to maintain consistent client care.
• 2.6) I will provide resources to help you stay organized and compliant with industry regulations.
3. Financial Management and Cash Flow
Financial uncertainty is a major source of stress, especially for those transitioning from a day job to full-time practice. Questions about budgeting, cash flow, and retirement savings can feel overwhelming. A solid financial foundation gives you the peace of mind to focus on what you do best—healing.
• 3.1) I will guide you in creating a realistic budget that meets both personal and professional needs.
• 3.2) I will help you develop a strategy for setting aside retirement savings, even during lean periods.
• 3.3) I will show you how to track income and expenses efficiently, minimizing year-end tax surprises.
• 3.4) I will provide insights into legitimate deductions and tax strategies relevant to healers.
• 3.5) I will support you in planning a smooth transition from part-time side hustle to full-time practice.
• 3.6) I will help you understand borrowing options and risks so you can make informed financial decisions.
4. Marketing and Outreach
Attracting and retaining clients can be challenging, especially in a crowded marketplace. Healers often struggle to communicate their value proposition or figure out which marketing channels will effectively reach their ideal clientele. A thoughtful marketing and outreach plan ensures you connect authentically with those who most need your services.
• 4.1) I will work with you to identify your ideal client and develop messaging that resonates.
• 4.2) I will help you structure a process to attract your first, tenth, and hundredth loyal client.
• 4.3) I will show you how to leverage both free and paid advertising channels without feeling “salesy.”
• 4.4) I will guide you in creating a strong social media presence aligned with your personal voice.
• 4.5) I will demonstrate how to build thriving communities—both online and locally—around your offerings.
• 4.6) I will teach you methods to gather meaningful client testimonials and feedback for social proof.
5. Product and Service Development
Defining what exactly you’re selling—whether it’s a one-on-one service, group classes, or digital content—can be complex. Understanding your customers’ real needs and refining offerings based on feedback are critical for long-term success. Clarity here means you stay relevant and innovative in a competitive market.
• 5.1) I will help you design a minimal viable product or service that meets immediate client needs.
• 5.2) I will guide you in validating your ideas through pilot programs and targeted feedback.
• 5.3) I will show you when it makes sense to pivot, refine, or expand your offerings based on results.
• 5.4) I will help you maintain authenticity and integrity while evolving your services to meet client demands.
• 5.5) I will coach you on pricing strategies, including when and how to offer discounts or sliding scales.
• 5.6) I will support you in creating pathways for customer feedback and reviews to continuously improve.
6. Personal Growth and Self-Care
Healers often dedicate their energy to others, risking burnout if they neglect their own mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Personal growth and self-care fuel the resilience and empathy required to sustain a healing practice.
• 6.1) I will show you how to design daily routines that replenish your physical and emotional energy.
• 6.2) I will help you balance the demands of client work with personal time for rest and rejuvenation.
• 6.3) I will guide you in setting clear boundaries that protect your well-being and professional relationships.
• 6.4) I will encourage you to engage in ongoing self-development, keeping your healing practice fresh.
• 6.5) I will remind you of the importance of joy, play, and creativity as core parts of a sustainable life.
• 6.6) I will share techniques for managing stress and preventing burnout before it sabotages your business.
7. Work-Life Integration
Even with solid self-care, it can be tough to integrate the demands of running a business with relationships, family responsibilities, and personal goals. Achieving work-life harmony ensures you stay emotionally grounded and present for clients and loved ones alike.
• 7.1) I will help you identify areas of your life that need attention and set realistic boundaries.
• 7.2) I will guide you in prioritizing tasks and delegating when possible, so you don’t become overwhelmed.
• 7.3) I will show you how to structure your schedule in ways that honor both personal commitments and client needs.
• 7.4) I will encourage open communication with loved ones about the challenges and rewards of self-employment.
• 7.5) I will help you plan for vacations and time off, ensuring smooth business operations while you recharge.
• 7.6) I will share strategies for staying focused on personal growth, even when business demands intensify.
8. Communication and Negotiation
Speaking up about fees, handling client expectations, and navigating collaborative relationships can be intimidating. Effective communication and negotiation skills are essential for sustaining a positive reputation and securing fair agreements.
• 8.1) I will teach you communication techniques that help you convey professionalism and compassion.
• 8.2) I will support you in discussing rates and boundaries confidently, ensuring mutual respect with clients.
• 8.3) I will show you how to negotiate win-win solutions when bartering or partnering with other practitioners.
• 8.4) I will provide guidance on handling challenging conversations—such as refund requests or client dissatisfaction.
• 8.5) I will empower you to protect your professional reputation through clarity and consistency in all interactions.
• 8.6) I will help you leverage strong relationships to expand your network and build a supportive community.
9. Technology and Remote Offerings
Healers often find technology daunting. From managing a website to hosting remote sessions or webinars, embracing the right tools can amplify your impact but also introduce new complexities. Striking the balance between tech-savvy and authentic human connection is key.
• 9.1) I will show you how to set up and maintain user-friendly digital platforms, even if you’re not tech-savvy.
• 9.2) I will guide you in choosing the most effective webinar and video conferencing tools for remote sessions.
• 9.3) I will teach you how to back up critical client data and safeguard sensitive information.
• 9.4) I will demonstrate how to implement automation (like email marketing) without losing a personal touch.
• 9.5) I will help you streamline your online presence—whether through social media, your own website, or an online store.
• 9.6) I will recommend best practices for working remotely, from maintaining client privacy to effective communication.
10. Growth, Scaling, and Advanced Strategies
Some healers aspire to expand beyond a one-person practice—perhaps by hiring staff, accepting partners, or seeking outside investment. Scaling requires strategic thinking, risk assessment, and the willingness to evolve your role within the business.
• 10.1) I will assess your readiness for expansion, helping you determine whether to hire, partner, or seek investors.
• 10.2) I will guide you in creating a scalable infrastructure that supports additional staff or practitioners.
• 10.3) I will help you find affordable health care for yourself and your employees..
• 10.4) I will help you plan exit strategies or succession plans, should your life or goals change unexpectedly.
• 10.5) I will encourage you to share your expertise—through speaking engagements, collaborations, or publishing—so you can reach a wider audience.
• 10.6) I will help you leverage advanced marketing tactics and partnerships for sustainable, ethical growth.
These ten categories address the full spectrum of challenges that healers often face. My goal is to assist you in these areas so you can focus your energy on healing others. If you are a Healer, please comment below and let me know how I can best help you from this list (or otherwise).
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